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怎么和外国人搭讪
在街头看到外国人不知道如何搭讪?小编来教你怎么和外国人搭讪。
如何搭讪外国人
Folks, no matter your English speaking level, starting a conversation with a foreigner can be tricky. This is especially true when trying to talk to strangers. But, in my experience living overseas, chatting with strangers is half the fun of living abroad. Testing my language skills on unsuspecting bystanders is a great way to pass the time, improve my language, and, in some cases, make a friend! If you feel the same way, read on to learn three surefire methods to successfully start chatting with anyone you want.
朋友们，不管你的英语水平如何，和外国人进行对话都是比较棘手的。
特别是试图与陌生人聊天。
但是，以我在海外生活的经验来看，一半的乐趣来自于与陌生人交谈。
在毫无疑心的陌生人身上测试我的语言技巧，是一种很好的消磨时间，提高语言能力，某些情况下，还可以交朋友的方式。
如果你跟我有一样的想法，就读下去，学习三种能让你与任何一个人展开对话的有效方法吧。
Comment - 发表看法
Starting a good conversation is always related to the context of the situation. No matter where or when, just look around your environment for something to have an opinion on. Then throw a little body language towards your target and let them know that very same opinion. The most classic is anything related to the weather. Something like, “Beautiful day today; much better than last weekend!” Raining? Comment on appropriate clothing: “I probably should have worn more today.”
展开一段对话，通常与你所身处的情景语境相关。
无论是何时何地，环顾四周，去找一些东西发表你的想法。
然后向你的目标来些肢体语言，让他们知道你的想法。
最经典的就是与天气有关的。
比如说，“今天天气真好，比上一周好多了!”如果下雨呢?对衣服做出适合的评论：“我今天应该要多穿点的。”
Indoors is no exception, you can still comment on whatever is in your immediate area. Wanna chat up that mysterious foreigner roaming your office? Smile and mention how much better the remodeled tea room is. Maybe even offer to make a cup!
在室内也不例外，你依然可以对你周围的事物做评价。
想搭讪在你办公室里晃悠的神秘外国人吗?微笑，然后提及新改造的茶水间多么棒。
或者你还可以为他(她)沏一杯茶!
Key Examples
Outdoors - 户外
Beautiful day today!
今天天气真好!
Wow, can you believe this rain?
哇，这雨怎么下得这么大啊?
Indoors - 室内
I can't believe this desk light is still broken.
我真不敢相信，这盏台灯还是坏的。
I love the new posters. They are so much better than before.
我喜欢新的海报。
比旧的好太多了。
Ask for help - 开口求助
Sometimes the simplest way to get the ball rolling is by asking for help. Here, the sincerity of the help you need is not the point. Maybe you are 90% sure that you should jump on bus #22 but... why not make 100% sure with the help of the interesting looking stranger sharing your bench. Confirming something with the person next to you is always going to get you a response, and an opening to having a more extensive conversation. This is easily achieved with a simple, “Do you know...”
有些时候，展开一段对话最简单的方法就是寻求帮助。
在这种情况下，你有多真诚去求助并不是重点。
也许你有百分之九十的把握，你应该直接坐22路车，但…为何不把几率变成百分百，向与你一同坐在长凳上的那个有趣的陌生人求助。
向你旁边的人确认某事，总能得到回复，还有机会展开一次长对话。
一个很简单的，“你知道…”就能达到效果。
When appropriate, you can even bust out a “Can you help me...?” or “Would you mind helping me...?” Below are some more examples.
在适当的时机，你还可以甩一句“你能帮我…?”或者“你介意帮我…?”下面是一些例句。
Key Examples
At a party/bar - 派对/酒吧
Do you know anything about this DJ?
你对这个DJ了解多少?
Would you mind holding this drink real quick?
你介意帮我拿一下这杯酒吗?
At a conference - 会议
Do you know when Prof. Smith is speaking?
你知道史密斯教授什么时候会发表讲话吗?
Hi. Can you help me with these papers?
嗨，你可以帮我分发一下这些文件吗?
Compliment - 赞美
Nobody is gonna get upset if you kick things off with a little sugar assuming you keep it reasonable. Short and simple is usually best. For example, “I really like your shoes!” or perhaps, “Nice watch! What brand is that?”
只要你适度，没有人会因为你一开始就说些赞美的话而生气。
简短通常是最好的。
比如说，“我真的很喜欢你的鞋子!”，亦或“手表不错!什么牌子的啊?”
Don’t limit the compliments to fashion. It could be the speech they just gave: “What you just said was perfect.” Or a skill they perform well, “You really know what you’re doing.” In short, when someone impresses you, let them know.
不要仅限于对时尚着装表示赞美。
可以是他们刚刚发表的讲话：“你刚刚说的简直完美。
”或者是他们表演的技术，“你真在行。
”简而言之，当别人惊艳到你时，要让他们知道。
Key Examples
Style - 衣着风格
That's a badass shirt!
这衬衣太屌了!
Nice shoes...
鞋子不错…
Performance - 表演
Hey, great job!
嘿，干得漂亮!
That was pretty awesome!
那真是太棒了!
Conclusion - 总结
All of these starters are just that: starters. Once you initiate a conversation its going to be up to the two of you to expand on it. Once the chatting has begun, relax and look for opportunities to showcase your personality. Ask more questions and drop in some humor, sarcasm, or any other wit that fits. These organic conversations will continue to improve as you talk with more people. Keep it real. You don’t have to be trying to make a new best friend everytime, but if you practice enough, you might in spite of yourself!
所有这些开场白都只是：开场白。
一旦你开展了一次对话，对话的后续就靠你们去扩展了。
一旦对话开始了，放轻松，找准机会展现你的个性。
多问些问题，是不是来些幽默的，反讽的话语，或者任何能体现才智的话。
这些基本的对话会随着你与人交流的次数而有所提高。
保持真实。
你不需要每次都以交到新的好朋友为目标，不过如果你练习得足够好，也许就真的可以噢!
Warnings - 雷区
“Where are you from?” and “What’s your name?” are overused and already super weak first-questions, but if delivered by an English speaking novice with the wrong tone, these poor openings quickly become complete turn-offs. The above three approaches are all superior anyways, so there’s really no reason to risk coming off sounding like an interrogator. You can learn each others names and hometowns as things naturally progress.
“你来自哪里呢?”和“你叫什么名字?”已被用烂了，而且头一个问题问这个真的很弱，如果是一个英语初学者，用错误的语调说出来的话，瞬间结束掉整个对话。
以上三种方法都非常优秀，所以不必冒险把自己变成审讯员。
在对话顺利进行的过程中，你自然会知道对方的名字和家乡。
With that said, enjoy starting more English conversations with more people and less pressure. Whenever it feels right to wrap up the conversation, go ahead and offer them a warm wish like, “Have a great day!”
最后，希望你可以享受与更多人展开无压力的英语对话。
当你觉得应该要结束对话时，最后给他们一句温暖的祝福，“祝你有个愉快的一天!”
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